Royal insiders reveal that Kate Middleton treats Prince William like her “fourth child,” managing his royal tantrums as she would for her three children. The revelation comes from a new book that claims the princess plays a crucial role in maintaining harmony at the palace, despite William’s reported temperamental nature.
At a glance:
• Kate Middleton reportedly manages Prince William’s “tantrums” similarly to how she handles their children’s outbursts
• A new book based on palace staff interviews reveals intimate details about the royal couple’s relationship dynamics
• William is described as occasionally having “little tantrums” if things aren’t done his way
• Kate’s non-royal background makes her relatable and a favorite among palace staff
• The Princess has broken from traditional royal parenting by being more hands-on with her children
Royal Staff Reveal Palace Dynamics
A new book titled “Yes Ma’am: The Secret Life of Royal Servants” by royal author Tom Quinn has pulled back the curtain on life within the royal household. The revelations are based on interviews with former and current palace staff who have witnessed the inner workings of the monarchy firsthand.
Staff members joke that Kate handles William’s occasional outbursts with the same calm approach she uses with Prince George, Princess Charlotte, and Prince Louis. Neither Kensington Palace nor Buckingham Palace has commented on these claims, maintaining their silence as usual on private family matters.
Kate and William have been married since 2011 and have cultivated the image of a modern royal family while working to balance tradition with the contemporary world. Their relationship appears to be shaped by Kate’s non-aristocratic upbringing, which royal insiders suggest gives her a more grounded perspective than those born into royalty.
William’s Childhood Trauma and Kate’s Influence
According to Quinn’s book, William’s occasional emotional unpredictability stems partially from his tumultuous childhood. “In many ways, William has had an emotionally damaging childhood,” Quinn writes, referencing the public breakdown of his parents’ marriage and the tragic death of his mother, Princess Diana.
“Occasionally, William has little tantrums and irritations if things aren’t done the way he wants them done,” Quinn reveals. This tendency to irritability reportedly mirrors behavior observed in King Charles III, suggesting a pattern within the family.
Kate’s influence has helped temper William’s emotions and made him a more involved parent. Unlike previous generations of royals who relied heavily on nannies, Kate is actively engaged in raising her children, breaking from royal protocol.
Modern Royal Parenting
Kate has reportedly drawn clear boundaries regarding certain royal traditions she finds outdated or inappropriate for her children. For instance, she opposes the “blooding” ritual, a hunting tradition where the blood from a first kill is smeared on the hunter’s face. The Princes of Wales considers this unsuitable for young Prince George, Princess Charlotte, and Prince Louis.
Despite breaking from some traditions, Kate has also successfully adapted to many ancient royal protocols. Palace staff reportedly favor her more approachable manner, which contrasts with the formal attitudes traditionally associated with the monarchy.
